A reader from Bombay wrote in to Parsiana stating, "Today I was with the family of a dear friend whose husband passed away. There was a lot of confusion and conflicting ideas and instructions on what precise steps one should take. One needs four copies of Aadhaar cards of the deceased and spouse? Who issues the death certificate? Then does one go to the Nana Chowk municipal office or to Doongerwadi? What do they need before sending the hearse? What clothes and how many of each does one need to take? They were asked to bring five white bedsheets. It......